Seriously, we all know how this keynote blog is going to go. Short and simple, yet, powerful!
If you aren’t being talked about then you aren’t making an impact. If you aren’t making an impact, then you aren’t being remembered and if you’re not remembered then you’ve only existed. People are going to talk! Good and bad. Just live accordingly to how you should and let them talk and BE Relevant! If they are talking bad and you find it to be true and it bothers you then change what they are saying about you by doing great things and BE Relevant. If people are talking bad and it’s not true then continue living as you are and don’t worry much about it because as your actions speak louder, what they say is irrelevant!
BElieve, BE Free, BE YOUtiful… BE!
The world is constant change. Our surroundings change, our situations change, our lives change, so it is only true that we too change. That’s natural! What isn’t natural is to change to blend or fit in, or to change for someone else based on what they need alone. Changing to be like someone else is a big no as well. Not fair to you and not fair to them. In all ways.
When someone changes you into what they want you to be you both lose, In my opinion. You don’t get to shine for who you really are and they only get the made up version of you. I say let them find someone who fits their mold and let me continue to BE!
You see whatever age you are is how long it has taken you to BE exactly who you are. Who you are is what is wanted and needed just as is at this very moment.
Why would a company that made shirts with their own giraffe logo on it (yes, giraffes are my faves) and were known for just that, started using Gucci, Versace, or any other brands logo? It’s silly! They would lose there integrity for their brand, everyone would know they were a fraud, the END!
Same goes for you! Just like everyone knows a fake designers bag, or a knockoff red bottom shoe, synthetic from real Brazilian, or a cheap dollar store cologne, they can sniff you out as well! Let go of trying to BE something you’re not! Let go of Generic and BE Original!
BElieve, BE Free, BE YOUtiful…BE!
These days there are so many electronic ways to find “love”. Tinder, ok Cupid, E Harmony, Christian mingle, surge, bumble, Grindr. Okay maybe not so much Grindr ?. We get to swipe up, down, left, right, all based on a profile created by the stranger in the other end. What I have found mostly is someone just wanting to have fun and not admit it, broken spirits looking for someone to fix them, controlling, cocky, yet insecure boys who can’t live up to the profile they’ve created and sometimes, it’s me who is not ready and jumps too quickly and I’m not all they thought I would be.
Many times I am picky, choosy, and selective in chatting with people in public. I usually have a set place and goal in mind for the day and I complete the task without being aware of who is crossing my path, or I give a quick hello and swap smiles and move along. When I go out with crew members and or with friends, I simply go out with the agenda to have a good time with the ones I came with. I like to be in control of my life and everything in it. That’s why the apps are so ideal for me because I get to decide who I talk to and don’t, whose worthy and worth it or not…… WRONG!
Let me tell you why I BElieve this is wrong and not completely healthy.
I don’t BElieve in just one soulmate. I BElieve there are many different people out there that we can connect with and choose from to Be with. But I don’t think all of them are online. Not all of them are on the beach, or in the mall, or at the bar, or on a cruise ship, or at a speed dating event, or in a plane, or anywhere in particular , but yet they are everywhere.
If you were looking for your keys, and had been searching for hours, retracing your steps to the grocery store, to a friends house, where ever, would you think to look in a strangers house? No because they aren’t lost someplace you haven’t been so there is no way you would find them there. Do you get it?
You won’t BE Found doing and going to the same places and not being open and out there. You have to chat it up, involve yourself in your surroundings and the people in it. Go to events, single outings, go to restaurants alone, movies, anywhere and get lost in the world so you can Be Found. You may even be the one to find. Yes you know what I’m going to say next! You may end up finding yourself! Get LOST and BE Found!
BElieve, BE Free, BE YOUtiful…BE!