We have all heard “when people show you who they are believe them”. However many times we don’t do just that and continue to search for another “truth” within a person.
I believe there are good traits in all people and I do believe that people can change, but I also believe that in a moment, in the now, that we must protect ourselves and not allow the wrong people to be in our circles in order to live a healthy sound life.
Within ourselves we also need to start taking a look at how others perceive us. Could it be we are too dramatic, rude, selfish, whatever word is used to describe us? Is it one person who thinks this about us or is it a group of people that have this opinion? Getting into another keynote, but simply put we should listen to the truth and decide what the truth is, see it, and believe it, until later proven wrong.
Everyone has the potential to give all they have, tell the truth about everything, treat each other right. Just the same that we all have the potential to lie, hurt, steal, cheat, etc. If you at first hand witness someone to be something that you don’t want or need in your life you should handle it at that moment instead of allowing it to get worst or harder for you to accept it because you have gotten too deep rooted. This doesn’t mean that you don’t forgive them for whatever they have done or give up on the fact that they can one day change, but for now they have shown you exactly who they are and you MUST believe them!
BE Deducive (which is not a real word yet but is in the making through online dictionaries). It comes from the root word Deduce.
Deduce meaning: arrive at (a fact or a conclusion) by reasoning; draw as a logical conclusion.
Start with yourself however! Truth is, when you can declare all of the truths about yourself good and bad, you will be a pro at deducing other people.
BElieve, BE Free, BE YOUtiful… BE!