One of the most important people in your life should BE YOU! When people are important to you, you treat them kindly, speak words of encouragement, motivate them, love on them, care for them etc. So why am I so hard on myself sometimes? Beating myself up for failures. Cussing myself out for wrong decisions made. Feeling sorry for myself and making excuses to and for myself. It just shouldn’t BE like this.
I’ve learned that when I am so hard on myself that I begin To BE hard on others and not in a good way. It’s almost like the things I am disappointed in myself for I project and judge others for. This goes back to my BE Accepted keynote.
We all know that the way we love and treat ourselves will BE how we are with others! We can’t truly BE for others if we can’t BE for ourselves!
This is why it is important to motivate and encourage and inspire ourselves when we get into those conversations with ourselves. Love and BE Kind to ourselves. Give ourselves grace. Understand we are only human and make mistakes and can shift and turn things around to BE Better!
Conversations with ourselves will always BE difficult because we want better for ourselves and don’t want to see, well, feel ourselves going through emotional distress from decision we’ve made that didn’t work out or actions that have us rethinking our purpose. Conversations with ourselves can become easier, however, if we just choose to be a little more patient with ourselves and reverse some of the negative things we say to ourselves with positivity and actually make the moves to make things better. Just whatever you do, don’t stop talking to yourself because YOU will become suspect. Lol.
BElieve, BE Free, BE YOUtiful… BE!