Monthly Archives: January 2019

I love my cat so much! Enoek, if you didn’t know, pronounced E Knock. He’s the little (big) guy in the picture with me above. He’s spoiled! I do many things for him and I don’t mind going out of my way for him because he brings me so much joy and is my buddy! Equivalent to my mom, my family, close friends, and most lovers lol. I love them and I love them without conditions and without expectations. 

My cat along with my other family and friends get on my nerves sometimes. I wont put my family and friends business out there so I’ll use Enoek as examples in this one. 

Enoek begs a lot. When I’m eating, cooking, putting dishes away and I look like I’m going to the place I keep his food, if he has dry food he still begs for his favorite soft food. Begs! And begs! Like I don’t give him enough. Unappreciative. Lol. And I believe he knows better. Animals know better. He knows I don’t want him on my counters but he sneaks there anyway and I yell at him and he quickly gets down and then days later he jumps on the counters and then stares at me defiantly waiting for me to say something. So he is deliberately trying my patience. I come home from trips to find some of my things knocked over (things that don’t break which tells me he is selective in knowing what will upset me but not have him on the streets lol). He makes a mess in and around the litter box after I’ve just cleaned it. I can go on and on but then it will sound like I have the worst cat ever and I really don’t. He’s a loving, cuddly, smart fur baby. And I love him! I love him unconditionally, regardless of how many times he irritates me or steals my spot on the couch as he always does, shown in the above photo. 

Many of us still have our pets that just don’t seem to listen. Many of us let men and women mistreat us out loud and with no remorse. We let strangers get passes. Chances after chances. When we really should love and BE Unconditional with those close to us that we truly say we love. We can’t put stipulations on our loved ones that determine the level of love we have for them. Love is love and you either love or you don’t. Just because someone lives a lifestyle you don’t agree with, or does things you don’t, has a different view on something, or whatever it is does not mean we stop loving them and BEing with them. It just means we disagree with certain things within their life. Stop hurting people and taking your love away from people just because of a disagreement. If your gonna love then LOVE and BE Unconditional with your love. I mean YOU do some terrible things in life and you still deserve to BE Loved. Here hold my mirror. 

BElieve, BE Free, BE YOUtiful… BE!

Keone Dent

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When we hear boss, we think of someone in charge of employees at the work place. Or someone in charge period. There are many other definitions, however. One of those definitions are; Excellent, Outstanding. When we achieve BEing ourselves 100% we become BOSS. Period!

Wether it is a creative that has launched their own business and it’s not anything new that hasn’t been done before, a popular Instagram of someone who you wouldn’t think or should have so many followers, a celebrity who is tearing up the media and getting so much air time and you can’t seem to find where their talents are, or the man/woman who has the perfect relationship all the way down to the most beautifulest partner and they themselves don’t seem to be eye candy. The truth and common denominator is that they SEE themselves for who they are, created their true brand of self, BElieved in who they were and BEcame a BOSS! 

When we show who we are flaws and all and live unapologetically and in truth, others love and BEcome attracted to the real us. Addicted even. 

In recent years I stopped trying to BE a brand of what I thought others wanted to see of me and stopped hiding behind my insecurities and just saw me for who I AM and now I’m hardly invisible. I AM BOSS!

Try it on. BOSS it will BE one of the best outfits you ever wear! Love yourself, who you are entirely. Share that with the world and BE Boss!

BElieve, BE Free, BE YOUtiful… BE!

Keone Dent

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I know the photo shows me with my little boy Enoek, but this keynote is broad and can be meant for anyone or anything. 

I have written a keynote BE Alone and it is important to have your alone time but it’s not healthy to always BE Alone. Even if it isn’t another human. Try a pet. Studies show that we can live a healthier, longer life just by caring for something or having that joy around us. They are great comforters when you’re feeling down as they sense these things. 

Honestly, though, I’m speaking of having a best friend or a lover. I know many of us have been hurt before and are cautious about allowing another person to come into our lives and get too close to us but it’s not a good thing to separate ourselves and deprive ourselves from having the rest relationship/friendship we deserve. It’s not fair even. A lonely heart is an unhealthy one. 

Allow yourself to open up and trust again. You can take baby steps even. Ease into it at your pace. Find someone you enjoy spending time with. Go! And go as often as you can. To the movies, the park, their house or invite them to yours. BE Accompanied to dinners, BE Accompanied to events and get together and share your joy while sharing theirs! 

If you just truly are not ready to get back out there and share your world with another person then at least go to the back up plan and BE Accompanied by a pet. It’s good practice. 

BElieve, BE Free, BE YOUtiful… BE!

Keone Dent

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Look! You can have the same job, same car, same outfit even share the same man/woman as someone else but you can never have their life! 

The way we experience things are different. There is a reason! We are all made individuals so that we can live our own paths and share with others so that they may BE Inspired for greatness or learn from the mistake we share. 

BEing anything else outside of our own path will NOT work for us or maybe it will but is that truly rewarding for you? 

To the point. Discover who you are and BE That! Find out what you are good at and study that and BE That! THAT’s really all you can do! It’s the way of life! BE THAT! DO THAT! HAVE THAT! What is that keone? Everything in life! 

BElieve, BE Free, BE YOUtiful… BE!

Keone Dent

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