Monthly Archives: September 2018

We all want the best in life! Career, relationship, friendship, family, clothes, jewelry, fame, fortune, all that! We want it perfect! Until we understand that it’s about the growth of getting there and nothing is ever perfect!

Understand that in life everything must grow. Grow bigger, grow stronger, grow older, grow wiser, etc. 

Once we realize that growth takes place we then understand that there are steps to growing. And it is up to us to make things better in our lives. 

If there is so much truth in all things grow and that there are steps to take in order to reach that growth we then understand that somethings take time and we must be patient for things to come to be. We also must take in the beauty of where we are in life and celebrate before going to the next level or we will constantly be in that bitter state of not appreciating where we are in life and growth then becomes a staggering mess of what am I doing wrong. ?…. 

This is why it is important for us to BE Content in life. Not settle! There is a huge difference! When we are content in life we are happy where we are for the moment but keeping in mind growth comes as does change and we get to BE then content in the next level and so on and so on as we continue to grow and clim the ladder of success. 

So try it. Close your eyes, breathe deep and say I am content with my life for where it is at the moment then celebrate and then make new goals, reach them, and repeat. But remember, do not look for things missing and over look what you already have. You could end up losing it all. 

BElieve. BE Free, BE YOUtiful… Be!

Keone Dent

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So there is a keynote BE Awake but it’s not the same as this at all. Stop sleeping on yourself and your talents and the world and BE Woke while dreaming and reaching. You have goals to reach and people to inspire.

What else you need to hear?

BElieve, BE Free, BE YOUtiful… BE!

Keone Dent

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If anyone knows about dreaming about the grass on the other side it’s me. So listen up. 

I get it. There is always something that may be missing, or appear to be missing in relationships and it’s so easy to wonder what it would be like in another “yard”. Truth is though there is no way to really guarantee that you will find what is missing by bouncing around. Seriously! However, you can create what it is that you feel is missing. Spice up the sex, heal up the connection, bring joy, passion, all those things that may fade out over time. As we know, relationship requires all parties to show up! We can’t just expect for our mates to step up, we have to meet them where they are. So if we need them to step up we must step up with them! 

So in short, stop peeking over in the next yard! BE Productive in your current relationship. Water it, fertilize it, protect it, love it, bring it sunshine, add a few ornaments and admire it! If after you do all you can to bring what you feel is missing and it’s still wilting and turning brown, then move out the damn house and get you a new yard. 

BElieve, BE Free, BE YOUtiful… BE!

Keone Dent

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Ever taken a picture with someone and they looked all perfect and ish and you looked all crooked faced eyes half closed? So vain we discard the photo not allowing the others in the photo to have their perfect moment to shine. Lol. Well it’s time you learn to let go of all that perfect mentality! I mean in reality, outside of photos YOU are not even perfect! You have flaws, you have areas in life that you can improve. We all do! What makes you so unique and lovable and Interesting are your flaws and the very things that make you insecure that you have learned to accept (and if you haven’t quite yet, keep working at it because it’s BE YOUtiful!). People connect to real humans. And real humans have flaws, and flaws are the very thing that make us human. Lol! 

There again is no such thing as perfect! Ever! Nothing at all in life is perfect!!!!!! But in my opinion when you realize you aren’t perfect and accept the things that are not perfect and work hard at being better in areas that can be improved you become as Perfect as can BE. So go ahead! Claim it and BE Perfect starting with BEing Perfectly flawed! 

BElieve, BE Free, BE YOUtiful… BE!

Keone Dent

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Have you ever bought a concert ticket on a ticket selling website? Ever purchased fashion or clothing online? Maybe you booked a vacation package complete with airfare, hotel, rental car and destination events. You can’t see any of those things physically. It’s not until you actually make it to the concert and sit through it and experience it good or bad, rain or shine or if it even happens as some concerts cancel due to the performers illnesses or weather and many times those tickets are non refundable, hello Janet Jackson! Sometimes your online order comes and you find it’s too tight or too loose, not the right style or looks cheaper in person than it did online. Now you have to go through all the motions of sending it back and maybe getting another or nothing at all in return. Same thing with the vacation, cancellations happen and many times in this situation you can’t change your vacation days with work so you have to shift and just find something else to do on your 2 weeks off. 

Shift! I love that word! It’s all about just shifting and making something work from something that didn’t. 

The same way you blindly preordered these things that you could not see the outcome for and we’re hopeful that everything worked out in your favor is the same way WE should chase after our dreams. It’s true it doesn’t work out for everyone but what do you have to lose and imagine all you have to can if you just go go go and BE Hopeful that it all turns out! Just go and do and BE!!!! It’s not guaranteed! But one thing you can BE Sure of is that you’re worth the journey!

BElieve, BE Free, BE YOUtiful… BE!

Keone Dent

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🎼To the left, to the left, everything you own in the box to the left 🎼 . Irreplaceable! The famous song by Beyoncé which claims that you and anyone else can “BE replaced in a minute”. There is truth in it when considering. Like at a job. Your title is not promised to you as there are other people in the world who may be more qualified. In a relationship, if you f ing up, yup best believe with me you won’t be invited to stick around. Many situations WE are replaceable! However when it comes to YOU and the relationship you have with YOU and the love we should have for ourselves, the person we are in our own lives should BE Irreplaceable. No not should BE but in fact we are irreplaceable when it comes to who we are to ourselves. 

So point blank, love yourself, BE Good to yourself, have fun with you, laugh with you, cry with you, share your intimate thoughts with you, really just BE with yourself and never worry about BEing replace in others lives and in life situations. Always have yourself and BE Irreplaceable! 

BElieve, BE Free, BE YOUtiful… BE!

Keone Dent

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Many times vulnerability is viewed as weak. Really think about it though. How weak is it to Be able to share a difficult time in life that you were blessed to come through and grow from? I would say it’s quite powerful! 

Our life lessons and struggle are meant to BE Shared with the world in order to encourage and uplift them through hard times. 

True that many people will face some similar situations in life but no ones story is told better than the one who has actually gone through the lesson. 

BE Vulnerable and share your story with the world in order to continue to grow from it while others are inspired by it. Don’t allow your story to be told for you. Only you know the truth of how it really went. 

BElieve, BE Free, BE YOUtiful… BE!

Keone Dent

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When we find someone we like we do all we can to impress them, make them want us back. And when we fall in love with them we do all we can to keep them. Holding them too tight is the best way to lose them. 

When you love someone and things take a turn for bad, the best and most highest form of love is being able to step aside and give that person space to decide what they want and need in life. Holding on to them and keeping them prisoner with any form of our control is only going to suffocate them and push them away faster and many times permanently. 

You know that saying, “let them run free and if it’s meant to be they will come running back” (well something like that), speaks volumes and holds true many times. I mean seriously it even gives you a chance to decide if it’s really what you want and need. Why even hold on to something that doesn’t want to be held on to? Holding someone captive to your love also holds you as prisoner! 

Free yourself and free your love! BE Liberating! Let people breathe, take deep breaths yourself. Love should just BE and truthfully speaking if you can’t just let love BE, then it never really was to begin with. 

BElieve, BE Free, BE YOUtiful…BE!

Keone Dent

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