Running a marathon, quitting a bad habit, saving up for a fantasy vacation, getting married, being successful, whatever it is you can do it!
So many times I have said these words and many more encouraging others to reach their full possibility because I believe in them, I really do. But how many times have I fallen short in motivating myself to do what I felt was impossible for me? Many times!!!! Like more times than I have been on this earth!
It’s easier said than done! I would have never accomplished some of the things I have been successful in had I forgotten to motivate myself. I found that everything is possible if you just set your mind to it!
Do you believe in coincidences? It’s cool if you do, but I don’t. I believe all things happen for a reason. I believe we were all places on this earth at the time we were for a purpose. I believe purposes come from passion and wants along with needs. I believe that we can do anything we want and set our minds to because something has us here for just that reason. My truth is that there is a higher power, I call him God and you may have a different name for him/her. I believe the one who is greater than us did not make us to be weak and to not succeed. Therefore I believe that believing in our higher power means we can believe in our higher selves. Why not?
What do we have to lose? Nothing at all but we could gain much regret if we don’t go and do all we wish to do. At least attempt it. Well for me, continue until it happens, or death comes and by then it wouldn’t matter, right? ?.
BE Motivating to everyone around you because they matter and are important too but do not forget to Be Motivating yourself. To motivate others is to motivate yourself because if they can do it you should believe you can as well and if you don’t believe you can do it how can you believe in someone else? We were all made by the same higher being.
BElieve, BE Free, BE YOUtiful… BE!
Many times I blame others for my insecurities or trust issues especially in past relationships. Many times I gave my heart and trust completely to others only to have them disrespect, lie, cheat, hurt, and leave me tougher than before but not able to trust anyone else. I’ve had decent relationships go sour simply because of my trust issue. I felt I had given so much power in trust away and I viewed everyone as the same trust stealing bandit and I just didn’t want the feeling again.
Same things in friendships, I’ve been in situations that cause me to give side eye to anyone who tries to get close to me.
With most anything I have learned to look inside of myself and make sure that I am putting out what I want back. I needed to learn to trust myself. I would say that I was going to quit smoking, or eating bad foods. Stop drinking too much, start auditioning again for shows, live life full and not keep my word with myself. I would tell even little white lies, wasn’t being authentic with everyone around me, choosing to be around the wrong people. Those not made for me, creating the relationships I thought I wanted and forcing them to be. In return, I had trust issues and guess what? IT HAS NOTHING TO DO with THE PEOPLE from MY PAST. My trust issues were created by myself! I was choosing to be involved with the nonsense.
In learning to trust myself. Trust my judgement and choose the right paths and the right people to be involved with. Listening to my Inner peace, my intuition, knowing that not everyone in life is out to hurt me. Understanding that people are not perfect and will make mistakes and sometimes cause pain. Taking power in knowing that I can BE TRUSTED and therefore everyone else can be trusted (of course until proven otherwise), but the most important thing is to trust myself.
I have a few great friends and dating and everyone involved in my life closely right now I trust fully! I owe it to my shift in life! It feels amazing!
I encourage everyone to BE Trusting! No not everyone, don’t just lay in the street and trust no one will run over you! Lol. But Be Trusting in yourself. Know who you are choosing to be involved with, the people you are surrounding yourself with, the situations you are entering. To make life work you will have to take chances and allow trust for new people and forgive those in the past and still trust, but remember you Trusting yourself will give you total power to know who can and cannot be trusted. No not really, but here is the truth, Trust yourself to know that even if you are betrayed or trust has been broken between you and another person that it doesn’t end life and you will pick back up and move along. You will become more aware of that individual and understand that individual does not represent everyone else.
BElieve, BE Free, BE YOUtiful… BE